1+1=2 but 1+1+1=0
.1+1=2 / 1+1+1=0
mathematically wrong but absolutely correct in love relationships esp new born ones. I’m not a love expert and I’ve never been in a relationship,but the relationship is between two, if a third part got involved nothing good is going to happen!
okay, I have a friend who has a relationship with a guy she keeps talking about telling how wonderful he is and blah blah ! as her best friend she asked me to talk to him and give my opinion. The first time she told me I said no ! keep me out of this it’s between the two of you. After a long argument she convinced me somehow and I said fine I’ll talk to him.
The first few weeks were fine the couple were happy cause my conversations with him (MSN conv) were like : yes no 
thank you !
After 1 month they started asking me about each other. how is she? how is he? and I kept saying fine without giving details.
After that he started asking me questions about her, simple questions like where is she going to study? did she get a scholarship? where is she now?.
I answered his questions with the info she gives me, and as a loved couple he should have known these things about her without asking me.
So when she know that he asks me about her she became crazy and said he doesn’t trust me and he said she lies to me and blah blah.
If you are lying to him. why did you beg me to talk to him?
how the hell I would know about the lies you’re telling him. and if I would talk to him we would talk about you my friend cause you are the common thing between us !
when I told her that she said you are just jealous.
jealous? from a relationship based on lies hmmm !?
August 29th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
The bottom line, any relationship is considered (finished/destructed/burned/damaged/harmed/halted/wrecked….etc) from the first moment of a 3rd person getting involved.
And here I’m talking about a true relationship ..
So I agree with you. That’s it
August 30th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
I agree as well.
They are not in love in the very true meaning. In fact, they are only consuming much of their freetime in talking to each other. There is a definite end to what they are calling as a “relationship”.
My advice: She should dip herself into more fruitful activities and hobbies and as a friend you should make her aware of that.
September 1st, 2008 at 7:49 pm
Ali7, exactly
titio84, It’s my advice to most girls I know