Just say it for god sake !
Talk talk ! express your self. every day I say that to my self
behind the keyboard I’m that person who won’t shut up for 1 minute, in the real life I’m the person who won’t talk for a minute ! except with people I know and comfortable with.
I like being quite cause I don’t have a big mouth puts me in troubles. but sometimes I need to shout very loud to say I’m quite but not deaf !
I don’t butt in anyone’s business and I’ve chosen a place for my self far away from other people’s gossips and worthless talks. good so far?
no not good cause even when you isolate your self, people will talk. no I became the number one subject in HRAR society.
The problem is they talk badly about me in my face cause I’m simply quite and won’t say anything.
But If I don’t have a tong I have a hand
someone got a slap on the face from me today. not very modern way to solve things but I did what I can to stop the shit !
I had the words inside my mind but they didn’t come out !
I need talking lessons !!!!!!!!!!
August 16th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
I see two separate issues..
1- Not talking :
I am myself a listener more than a talker, actually I never ever started a personal chat about me, I intrefere with examples of my life, yes sometimes. Otherwise Involving in a common chat and/or commenting on others’ businesses is not a good behavior anyway, so you’re right in that
2- Not replieng :
The slap is good in concept !
I did أفغص الأوادم sometimes, in same situations
Hmm, I won’t talk about myself here, but you need to build kind of “fence” around yourself, electricity-powred one, learn instant replies, insult whenever necessary. Oh it seems rude? trust me. It worked !
August 16th, 2008 at 10:39 pm
yeah I don’t want to lose my un-nosy behavior I’m happily not involved in others issues
so, yes I need that electric fence with the highest voltage of unpredictable insults from the sweet person people know
But how ?
August 17th, 2008 at 12:55 am
People gradually will learn what you don’t want them to comment about, so tell ‘em once, second.. on the third : FIRE
The thing is, being aggressive is the way. You don’t wait people to respect you, you earn your respect from them !
But after all, does Cookie wants to be like this after long-known as a sweet girl? hmm..
August 17th, 2008 at 11:34 am
from day on, sweetness depends on who I’m dealing with.
August 17th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
Hmm, well you see most people are retarded, yup thats true even if they look normal they still got mutant gens, see they will talk about you even if you changed your self for them its endless battle so dont waste your time with them just be your self eat what you want wear what you want its up to you after all, and by time you will find out most of the poeple you was hanging with are just plain idiotes who dont know the true meaning for friendship just used you to get more reputation or ( power ) by mocking you.
For guys insults and beating the hell out for them work just great as most of them are animals who can only understand by being rough with, but with girls I got no idea at all, try to be the ( Good girl ) with all of them maybe that will work, if not use the guys technology because its top efficient.
And maybe, if you hang with the only trust worthy girls who will respect you for your personality then this might work.
After all its all depend on you, Good luck and god bless.
August 17th, 2008 at 2:29 pm
bad girls are more aggressive in putting on people. they can delete your good image in seconds.
so I must show my claws when needed
August 17th, 2008 at 3:35 pm
Good luck with that
September 8th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
When I read the first few lines, I was totally reminded of myself, as if I was the one described…
Writing to no end, & even when it’s with the same person… talking is simply a different matter UNLESS, I’ve known & talked to that person for ages.
But the issue here is that I was able to improve a lot more than before by interacting with more people & starting to participate in social activities. They really do make a difference person of you!
And you said you have your friends… once you do have them, even if you are no good enough in speaking, good friends can come in aid most of the times.
But there is one thing I can’t agree with you. I’m against violence & my proceduare in these situation is “وإذا خاطبك الجاهلون فقل سلاماً”
JUST IGNORE THEM!!!
Silence can be a lot more powerful in times than a slap on the face!
God bless ;-)
September 9th, 2008 at 3:35 am
I’m trying to participate in social activities. but I end up sitting with a silly smile on my face in the corner. I need more practice !
I’m against violence too but it was about reputation so I had to do something